IT’S A GAME!
You’ve probably heard it said a lot – “Playing the dating game”. Like in board games, dating has a goal involved, lots of strategy, and of course opponents. The good thing is, there are LOTS of people out there to choose from – so it doesn’t make the game so bad. And even a bad date isn’t all that bad, when you are meeting new people, and learning about them.
If you have read the “Dating Tip #6 – It’s a game!”, let us know your view on it, and if it helps you in dating.
Dating tip: Promote!
Businesses and companies sure know a lot about this – promote. They want to pull people in to buy their services and products. It isn’t too different when it comes to a person looking for and wanting to pull in their dream. There’s a lot of people out there – so it’s just a matter of getting their attention by promoting. Much like a company places advertisements to get people’s attention – in the dating world, it’s putting a profile on a dating service to get the same result.
How many ads have you seen or heard on TV or the radio, and felt they were not very good? Then again, some of them might have been very clever and good, and maybe it made you want to go out and buy their products. The same thing with your profile. Creating a boring profile about yourself is much like a boring advertisement you see on the TV or radio. So you need to come up with exciting things to say about yourself in your profile, and put up photos that really make you look good and appealing to people. The nice thing about profiles, is that you can change them anytime you want. If what you say a certain way about yourself isn’t pulling in any interest from a people, then change it up, and try communicating it a different way. Or try different photos of yourself, and see if you get a different response with one photo compared with others.
If you have read and tried the “Dating Tip #2 – Promote!”, let us know how it worked for you. Or if you have any comments to add about it, we’d love to hear from you!
tip: GET A REALLY GOOD IDEA OF WHAT YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP IS.
This principle can be used in any area of your life. Whatever you want or are going for (like goals and purposes in life), it’s good to get a good idea of what exactly it is what you want.
If you have read “Dating Tip #1 – Ideal Relationship”, and have tried it out in your life, we’d love to hear from you, and find out how workable it is for you. Also if you have anything to add about this, feel free to write your comments below.